There is no surprise that a lot has changed since our parents used to be our age. Not only do we have more innovations, resources or even attention to mental health, but also there is a huge difference in our views on relationships. Probably there are many of us whose parents at our age were already married with kids and we can’t even call the doctor…

Well, about that, on TikTok there is a trend going on that more and more online users are hopping on. Folks online share their parents’ photos when they were at the same age and in comparison add their own photos revealing quite a different state of life that they are in. So scroll through, upvote the ones to which you can relate the most and share your thoughts below!

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“Each generation uniquely shapes the cultural, social, and economic landscape, reflecting the values, priorities, and challenges of their time,” shared Alexis Abramson, PhD, who is a lifestyle gerontologist, with Bored Panda.

She also shared a few societal changes that have occurred between generations, starting with environmental awareness. “Younger generations have been more vocal about climate change and environmental conservation, influencing policies and behaviors. Also, family structures - they have become more diverse, with variations in household compositions, including single-parent households, blended families, and chosen families.

“There’s also been a trend towards delaying marriage and childbirth, as well as an increase in cohabitation and non-traditional relationship arrangements.” Moreover, political ideologies and affiliations have shifted over time, influenced by global events, social movements, and generational values.

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Obviously, each generation has witnessed remarkable advancements in technology. “For example, older generations may have experienced the introduction of television, while younger generations grew up with smartphones and the internet. This has dramatically altered communication, entertainment, and work patterns.

The following changes are in gender roles and expectations over the years. “Women’s participation in the workforce has increased, and progress has been made towards gender equality in various spheres of life. Attitudes towards LGBTQ+ rights have also evolved, with growing acceptance and legal recognition.”

Alexis noted that there’s been a growing emphasis on health and wellness, with increased awareness of mental health issues, the importance of physical fitness, and the impact of diet and lifestyle choices on overall well-being.

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Now, speaking about the advancements in technology and communication - Alexis emphasized that they have transformed the way relationships are formed, nurtured, and maintained across generations, significantly impacting societal norms and family dynamics. 

She pointed out that technology has revolutionized communication, offering instant connectivity regardless of geographical distance. “This has led to more frequent and diverse communication between family members, including video calls, instant messaging, and social media interactions. Consequently, younger generations who have grown up with these tools may place greater emphasis on constant communication and staying connected with their families compared to older generations.”

Comparing relationship dynamics, she noted that social media platforms and dating apps have altered the dynamics of romantic relationships, providing opportunities for meeting new people, and maintaining connections. “Younger generations often use these platforms to explore relationships and express themselves more openly. In contrast, older generations may have different views on online dating and prefer more traditional methods of meeting partners.”

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Technology has also both strengthened and strained family bonds. “On the one hand, it enables families to share experiences, photos, and updates in real time, fostering a sense of closeness even when physically apart. On the other hand, excessive screen time and digital distractions can lead to reduced face-to-face interactions within families, potentially affecting the quality of relationships, especially between parents and children.”

Also, generational differences exist in attitudes towards privacy and sharing personal information online. “Younger generations tend to be more comfortable sharing details about their relationships and family life on social media. In comparison, older generations may value privacy and discretion more, preferring to keep certain aspects of their personal lives offline.”

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Finally, Alexis emphasized that there are overarching trends in the way different generations approach parenting and raising children or wanting kids in general, but individual parenting styles and approaches can vary significantly within each generation based on factors such as cultural background, socioeconomic status, and personal values.

Starting from parenting styles - each generation exhibits distinct parenting styles influenced by their upbringing, cultural values, and societal norms. “For example, baby boomers may lean towards authoritative parenting, emphasizing discipline and respect, while millennials and Generation Z parents often prioritize a more collaborative and empathetic approach, focusing on open communication and emotional well-being.”

Also, looking at work-life balance - Alexis pointed out that it has become a significant consideration for many younger parents, particularly millennials and Generation Z. “They often strive to balance career aspirations with family responsibilities and are more likely to seek flexible work arrangements and parental leave policies to accommodate their parenting duties.”

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“With the proliferation of technology, younger generations of parents are navigating the challenges of raising children in the digital age,” she emphasized. “They may implement stricter screen time limits, monitor online activities more closely, and educate their children about digital literacy and online safety from a younger age.”

And delayed parenthood. “There’s a trend towards delaying parenthood among younger generations, driven by various factors such as pursuing higher education, establishing careers, and financial considerations. Many millennials and Generation Z individuals are opting to delay starting families until the later stages of their lives, contributing to lower birth rates in some regions.”

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So guys, don't forget to check out Alexis’ Instagram, Facebook, X/Twitter, LinkedIn and website! 

And what do you think about this trend? Do you have some fun comparisons? Share your thoughts below!

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