15 Major Mistakes Women Make That Push Men Away

You’re trying everything to make your relationship work. You’re attentive, caring and always there for him. But something’s off. He’s pulling away, and you can’t figure out why.

I’ve seen this scenario play out countless times. Women come to me confused and hurt, wondering why their best efforts seem to backfire. They’re doing what feels right, but it’s pushing their man further away.

Here’s the truth: what many women think will draw a man closer often does the opposite. It’s not your fault – our culture doesn’t teach us how men really think and feel in relationships.

When I talk about ways women push men away, I’m not pointing fingers. I’m sharing insights I’ve gathered from years of coaching and countless real-life examples. This isn’t about making excuses for men or criticizing women. It’s about showing you what works and what doesn’t, so you can have the love life you really want.

In this article, I’ll show you 15 common behaviors that push men away. Some might surprise you. Others might feel uncomfortably familiar. But don’t worry – I’m not just highlighting problems. I’m giving you practical solutions.

15 Mistakes That Push Men Away

1. Overanalyzing

It’s a trap that takes your relationship into a downward spiral – and it’s your own fear that’s at the root of it.

When you’re overanalyzing, it’s fear driving your thoughts. This warps your perspective and puts your relationship in a bad cycle: you start fishing for reassurance that he wants you. This constant need for validation changes your vibe. The carefree, present, happy woman he was drawn to is replaced by a tense, worried and unhappy version who can’t get out of her head. Naturally, his attraction fades because that initial energy is gone.

[noinsert]When he shows less attraction, you worry more, and the cycle feeds itself. At the root of this is caring too much. I’m not saying to be inconsiderate, mean or unkind. But imagine this: right now, the thought of losing him throws you into a panic. What if it didn’t? What if your thought was, “OK, I like this guy, and I want it to work out, but if it doesn’t, I’ll be OK”?

If you honestly believed you’re OK now and you’ll be OK no matter what happens in this relationship, it cuts the fear cycle off at its root. And when fear isn’t driving you, your energy will naturally shift back to being the easygoing, carefree, light, happy woman that attracted him in the first place.

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