How Do Girls Use Nice Guys? | The Truth You Need To Know

How Do Girls Use Nice Guys? | The Truth You Need to Know

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Hey, what’s up, KamaTV! It’s your dating coach Emre from Kamalifestyles.com, back with another insightful and fun video to help you guys level up your dating game. Today, we're going to be talking about a topic that a lot of men face but rarely want to admit: How do girls use nice guys? Now, I know this can be a touchy subject, but we're here to dive deep into the nitty-gritty, separate myth from reality, and most importantly, help you stop being the "nice guy" that gets taken advantage of.
Nice guys finish last—how many times have you heard that phrase? But the truth is, being "nice" isn't the problem.

The problem is when your kindness is used against you, when you become a doormat or emotional crutch. Trust me, guys, it happens way more often than you think. So in this video, we’re going to break down how some girls use nice guys, how you can spot the signs, and—here's the kicker—how you can stop it from happening and start getting the respect and attraction you deserve!

Section 1: Why Do Girls Use Nice Guys?
Alright, so let’s start with the basics—why do some girls use nice guys? It’s not like every woman is out there plotting to take advantage of your kindness. But, some girls, knowingly or unknowingly, take advantage of the fact that you’re always there for them without asking for much in return.

Here’s why:
Emotional Security: Nice guys often become the go-to emotional support. The girl knows you’ll listen to her, comfort her when she’s upset, and validate her feelings. While there’s nothing wrong with being supportive, it becomes a problem when you’re doing all this without getting anything back in terms of interest or commitment.

Attention & Validation: Some girls love the attention and validation that come from having a guy who’s always around. You’re giving her a self-esteem boost without her having to reciprocate. It’s like emotional candy for her, but you’re left starving for real connection.

Friend-Zoning with Benefits: Not the benefits you’re thinking of! I’m talking about emotional benefits here. You’re the guy who helps her move, the guy who gives her advice, and the guy she calls when she needs something. But when it’s time for romance? Suddenly, you’re just “such a good friend.” Ouch, right?

Example: Imagine this—she texts you, "Hey, can you help me build my IKEA furniture?" And you, being the nice guy, say, "Sure, no problem!" You spend the entire day helping her out, and at the end, she says, "You're like a brother to me!" Man, it hurts, doesn't it?

Section 2: The Signs You're Being Used
Let’s cut to the chase—how do you know if you’re being used? Here are some classic signs:
She Only Reaches Out When She Needs Something: If the only time she calls or texts you is when she needs help—whether it’s emotional support, a ride somewhere, or help with something—this is a major red flag. You want a relationship built on mutual connection, not just convenience.

She Cancels Plans Last Minute: If she’s always flaking on plans, especially if it’s something that seems like a "date," but she’s all about hanging out when you’re doing something for her, it's a sign she’s not valuing your time the way she should.

No Romantic Interest: This is the biggest one. If she’s always talking about other guys she’s interested in, or never shows any signs of romantic attraction towards you, yet still enjoys all the benefits of your kindness, it’s time to rethink your situation.

You’re Constantly Making Sacrifices: Are you skipping plans with your friends or rearranging your life just to be available for her? Are you the one always giving, while she’s always taking? If so, you're in a one-sided relationship, my friend, and it’s not leading anywhere good.

So, stay smart, keep it fun, and never settle for less than you deserve. And as always, if you enjoyed this video, give it a thumbs up, share it with your friends, and hit that subscribe button for more dating tips and advice. Until next time, this is Emre, your big brother, helping you become the best version of yourself. See you next time!

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