How To Keep Your Power (no Matter The Circumstance) | Dating & Relationship Advice

We often hear in dating advice, “Don’t give your power away.” How does that look in the real world? Here’s how to never feel like you’ve lost your power, no matter the circumstance.

Iris writes, “Hello lovely Susan! I appreciate you reading and considering my suggestion. I'm aware you’ve discussed the topic of power before, I watch all of your live shows. I've heard you say that being direct and asking clarification is for our benefit, and NOT needy nor should it be thought of as ‘losing our power’ as many other coaches suggest. They say, “don’t do XYZ because you’re losing your power. What about when someone you ended things with, say a player, sends a text after a while. You respond, and then they go silent. You don't want them back and responded out of decency yet feel kinda dumb after that. Most coaches say, “you lost the power you earned when you broke up with them.” But if you don't go back to them, did you really lose your power? Why does it feel like a loop of endless competition? What is power anyway? At a deeper level, it’s just a word. You are definitely the master of reframing so I can’t wait to hear your take on this! “How to never feel like we lost our power no matter the circumstance.”

1. Power Dynamics In A Relationship
2. Keeping Control, Independent Of Circumstances
3. How To Do It Examples
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