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Jennifer Lopez Discusses Her Evolving Views On Love For The First Time Since Her Split From Ben Affleck
Jennifer Lopez has opened up about her journey toward self-discovery and newfound strength for the first time since her highly publicized divorce from Ben Affleck.
Speaking candidly in an interview with comedian and host Nikki Glaser for Interview magazine, Lopez reflected on the personal trials that have shaped her current state of mind. Glaser, known for her biting stand-up and frequent commentary on relationship dynamics, guided Lopez through an intimate conversation, touching on her self-esteem struggles, motherhood, and evolving views on love.
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The interview took place during the weekend of Lopez’s appearance at the Toronto International Film Festival, where she promoted her new movie, a biographical drama about Anthony Robles, a wrestler born with one leg who defied the odds. Lopez plays Robles’ mother, Judy, a role she says resonated deeply with her. “It’s one of those great inspirational stories that I think the world needs right now,” Lopez shared, adding that seeing the audience react in real-time was an emotional experience. “Being there with Judy Robles, who I play, was beyond,” she said.
Lopez admitted that the role drew parallels to her portrayal of Selena, another real-life figure. “There’s just something different about playing real people,” Lopez explained. She spoke about the weight of portraying real-life characters, especially when their stories are so deeply personal. In Selena, with the permission of the deceased, Queen of Cumbia, she slept in her bedroom. Meanwhile, the “Jenny from the Block” singer, spent hours speaking with Judy over Zoom, learning about her struggles, and these conversations shaped Lopez’s portrayal in the film.
However, it wasn’t just professional challenges that dominated the interview. Glaser masterfully turned the conversation toward Lopez’s personal journey, particularly her battles with self-esteem — a struggle that began in childhood and continued into adulthood. “My whole life has been proving my enoughness,” Lopez revealed. Raised as the middle child in a working-class Bronx family, she described how early feelings of neglect and not being a priority influenced her adult relationships. She reflected on how she had long tolerated unhealthy dynamics because she felt undeserving of more, but motherhood and life’s trials had slowly helped her recognize her worth.
Lopez admitted that the turning point came through motherhood — 16 years ago — and through a series of life’s hardest lessons. “It’s not until you go through incredibly hard moments and huge disappointments… that these things start becoming crystal clear,” she said.
Lopez described herself as being on a “lifelong process” of learning and growing. She acknowledged that even after moments of clarity, life often presents new challenges to test one’s resolve. “When your whole house blows up, you’re standing there in the rubble going, ‘How do I not ever let that happen again?’” she said, reflecting on how she has learned to own her part in life’s setbacks.
One of the most revealing moments came when Glaser asked Lopez if this was the first time she could declare her singlehood without looking for someone to complete her. “Yes!” Lopez responded. This admission marked a pivotal moment for Lopez, a self-identified romantic who has always sought deep connection in her relationships. Now, she says, she has realized that personal happiness doesn’t depend on having a partner. “We think, ‘I have to have that to be whole and happy.’ And you don’t,” Lopez asserted.
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As she continues navigating life in the public eye, Lopez has also learned to distance herself from the constant scrutiny of social media and tabloids. While she admitted that hurtful comments still sting, she emphasized her firm grounding in who she truly is. “I know I’m a good person. I know I’m a good mom. I know who my friends are,” she declared. For Lopez, the focus now is on her artistic passions — whether the world is watching or not. “What matters for me, as an artist, is doing work that inspires me,” she concluded.
This revealing interview showcases Lopez’s determination to rise above personal hardships and define her life on her terms. While her public image often shines with glamour, Lopez is now more committed than ever to embracing her authenticity and owning her story.
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