Man’s ‘unsolicited' Dating Advice For Men Has Everyone Talking, Internet Says 'be Alone And Chill'
A man on the social media platform X has shared some honest advice for men navigating the dating world, and the internet is thankful for his practical tips. The user, identified as Venkataramana Reddy, shared what he called "unsolicited advice" for men entering the dating scene, drawing from his own experience.
In a post on X, he introduced his tips with the statement, "Boys in the dating market, some unsolicited advice from a man who has been there, done that."
Here are the dating tips he shared -
1) Use a good deodorant and perfume—whatever you are comfortable with.
2) Don’t show up in training shorts and flip-flops while claiming, "She has to like me for who I am." That’s not how you attract a mate.
3) Wear shoes—sneakers if you’re young.
4) Stick to colors like white, blue, or grey. Avoid maroon, green, or other random colors.
Boys in the dating market, some unsolicited advice from a man who has been there done that.1. Use a good deo and perfume. Whatever you are comfortable with2. Don’t turn up in a pair of training shorts and flip flops and say, “she has to like me for who i am”. Thats not how…
— Venkataramana Reddy (@tirumuru_87) January 12, 2025
He concluded with some blunt advice, "Seeing guys go for their first dates like absolute tools. You are not meeting your mum’s Lalita Sahasranamam WhatsApp group. You are meeting a potential mate, for heaven’s sake."
The post quickly went viral, sparking a lot of reactions and discussions online. One user humorously commented, "Well, one way it’s better to be alone and chill. No arguments, no bloated faces, no dhaniya and curry leaves demands, and most importantly, no need to watch her face the entire Sunday."
Another user added their own advice, "Also trim your beard properly; clean-shave if your beard growth isn’t good. There’s no style or fashion statement in having a beard that looks like pubes."
A third user suggested, "Also: do some research on topics to discuss and strike a balance between talking and listening."
The post has clearly struck a chord with many, offering a blend of humor and useful tips for those navigating the dating landscape.