Why We Choose Partners To Impress Others—and How To Find Real Love | Dating Advice

Are You Subconsciously Dating for Approval? Men date women for the approval of other men. Women date men for the approval of other women. Here’s how the desire for social approval impacts mate selection and our future happiness. #ApprovalPrison

Are you dating someone you truly want to date? Or are you subconsciously trying to impress others? External messages about who makes an "appropriate" partner are everywhere, pressuring us to conform for social status—often at the cost of true happiness and authentic mate selection.

Here’s how to set yourself free from social messaging and pick the partner you really want— who will make you happy.

1. Social Influence
2. Group Acceptance and Status
3. Independent Thinking
4. Authentic Choice of Mate
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00:00 Introduction
00:29 The Double Bind for Men and Women
02:39 Social Currency
03:03 Social Need for Approval
04:27 Group Acceptance and Status
05:30 What's Your WHY?
06:04 Independent Thinking