Dad Sued Me, Lied To Judge, I Want To Tell The Judge
Last october my grandma died. she left everything to me in a trust and didnt leave anything to my aunt or father - her two children.
My aunt and father then teamed up to sue me. They lost... so I am the court ruled trustee and rightful inheritor of her estate... but my dad is still a beneficiary of the trust so i am legally obligated to remain in contact with him and benefit him with the trust. while suing me, my father had his home raided for guns, police found loaded weapons he had hidden in the garage of the house that I inherited that he wouldnt / still wont move out of.
at his court hearing last monday, the judge asked him if he had a medical marijuana card to which he replied "yes".
Instead of going to jail he obtained a type of house arrest and is still living on my property and refuses to leave.
I know for a fact that he does not have a medical marijuana card and I am grappling with contacting the judge to let her know that my father lied to her.
He is a multiple time fellon and I am struggling with the idea of him potentially spending the rest of his life in jail. The thing is that he is such an intense burden on me, my financial life, and my mental health. Before he sued me I had my own apartment, I had a job that I maintained for 6 years, I had a stable relationship with my aunt and my grandfather, and I had $10k saved up, and since he sued me I have none of those things as a direct result.
just typing this all out, in an analytical sense i can see what I should do but the moral sense of potentially sending my father to prison is weighing heavily on me. He didnt care if I went to jail though. He didnt care about much at all.
please help me to consider the options that i may have here and im just really stressed out and im losing my sanity over this. he is demanding so much and doesnt seem to realize what he put me through. Simply recieving a text from him sends me spiraling and reminds me that not too long ago that he and his sister, people that have always loved me, turned on me suddenly to try to ruin like my life, I mean they ruined a lot of my life. I am trying to cope lol. it was terrifying and I dont want to invite any more aggression from their side. I dont have much to begin with, let alone now, so when he says something like "would you be able to drive me two hours south and back next monday" it sets me off and makes me want to say like "you sold the car that we couldve used, do you think that was a good idea now that you need rides?" but i dont want him to sue me again...
I really just want to talk about this scenario that im in and get some advice.
thanks in advance.
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