Ex "friend" Stalking Me And Harassing/threatening/blackmailing Me And People I Know

Hi. Unfortunately a girl that I made friends with online about three years ago has begun threatening and harassing me after I didn't want to move in with her and her boyfriend. She keeps saying she's taking me to court for money that never existed. Live in North Carolina. She's in Texas.

She was really nice and then suddenly she started sleeping with an older man that was married. She told him I would move in with them since I was in a bad place anyway and they tried to get me to be in a sexual relationship with them. I always said no. I ignored them. I was afraid at that point because when I ignored her, she sent messages to the guy I live with which is an abusive ex (I've lived with for five years) I was seeking therapy and counseling for to leave safely.

She has contacted him and his friends and anything she can find saying he's a rapist, abuser, etc. Sending paypal requests for 2000 dollars saying I owe her money. The entire time I knew her she only sent me 100 dollars with of stuff for a birthday, and 20 dollars one other time for food. That's it.

She's making stuff up, she's saying she wants to make it so I get raped and killed by telling my abuser, that I live with, everything I've ever shared with her. And she did mostly, but she's holding onto screenshots. Luckily he seems to not care much about it right now yet.. I'm not sure. I'm uneasy. I was terrified I was going to be killed at first.

She said if I contacted the police to tell them she's harassing me she would send even more information to him and others to make sure I got killed or was made homeless.

Right before this she was trying to get me to live with her again. I've been ignoring her entirely. I've blocked her and I told her not to contact me or threaten me.

She continues. The messages are vile. I'm not the first person she's done this to it seems, but potentially the worst case. But she keeps saying she's taking us/me to court.

So now she said I need to send the birthday gift stuff back, send her 2k (it isn't worth that), or she's taking me to court to sue for emotional damages from hearing about my abuse and she's posting about me online saying I'm a scammer and I lie about my abuse. I haven't asked other people for money. I have medical records of my abuse.

I've always told her to please stop doing things for me, that I'm not moving in with her, that she's nice but she doesn't need to buy things for me or send anything. I've never asked her for anything.

This is the most recent message she sent other than finding her way into my abusers friend groups and sending insane messages to everyone.

"Just letting you know that I'm serving BOTH you and (him) with papers to take you to court for my shit back. I'm suing for 5K and emotional damages that you'll have to pay for out of pocket if I win. Sleepless nights because of you telling me you were being poisoned, abused and raped. Fuck you for lying. The police told me to tell you that you have a few weeks until I get the court papers to either send me the stuff back or send me the amount it equals to or I'm suing for max damages. "

She also threatened to do a welfare check on me and have police sent to my house for fun just because in the past the guy I live with threatened me that it better never happen again after her friend did one.

I kind of feel like I shouldn't be worried about her, but also I'm stressed. I'm just stressed out and wish I could get her to go away. She giving my abuser power and making it harder for me to leave safely with the plans my therapist and doctors have for me. I know if she takes me to court, if that's even possible ? It would just make her look very bad, but it would turn into a weird case to go through with my abuser since a lot of stuff would probably have to be evidence of that coming up. She also thinks that and is using that to threaten if I don't do what she wants. I don't think she can take me to court though as there is no evidence anywhere that I've done anything she's stating, but also she's trying to create evidence that doesn't exist.

I offered to return things she gave to me before and she didn't want that. She wanted money and she really just wants me to move in with her and her 56 year old boyfriend. I don't think it will make it stop.

I don't know if there are any courses of action here. I'm just ignoring her. But I'm in edge at what she might send to my abuser that I'm currently in the process of safely removing myself from. She has knowingly put my life in danger. Or she was hoping to.

This is actually a small summary of everything she's doing. I'm not sure if there's even a police report to be filed or what.