Going To A Women's Dv Shelter...

I am working on list of the things I need to address and will welcome any additions or advice. All I want at the end of the day is for my daughter to have her needs met and have a safe living environment. No I do not consider my in laws or her father capable of providing that. I know that at my best, I am her best shot at a good life. I understand that I chose To surrender my control in the hope that I would be supported in recovering and getting back to "my best". I am trying to accomplish this as peacefully as possible, Without unnecessary disruption.

For context I am without stable housing, jobless, and have disabling health conditions that I'm still trying to work out. I have a 50/50 custody agreement but no visitation schedule drawn. The shelter is 45min away from my daughter who's staying eith her dad (who is also technically jobless temporarily). I don't have a license although I can technically drive. I have a handful of belongings I am selling so I have a cushion. Family car is in both of our names. There was significant financial and emotional abuse, Some physical abuse but I don't have evidence because I didn't have a phone at the time. We live in California although I have people who are willing to help me relocate to oregon, texas and colorado.

Sorry for the formatting and everything else. I had an iphone for like ten years and i'm struggling through adjusting to an android.