Help. Restraining Order Violation. How To Protect Myself? California

I have a 5 year restraining order against by ex husband. This is the 3rd one I had to file/renew against him. He has missed his weekly FaceTimes with our 7 year old for the past month and has not contacted me through the court app to schedule. But he called a welfare check for our child and the police had come and scared myself and my child at home during dinner.

He had informed them that he hasn’t been able to FaceTime our child but the app proves he didn’t reach out or call at all. This is not the first time he has done a welfare check either.

I plan on going to court to file this violation but if he tries to do the weekly FaceTime that is suppose to be today, do I still have to do them? I have so much anxiety and stress already and having to hear his voice over FaceTime gives me so much ptsd specially after the police showing up.