I Bought A House With My Girlfriend, I Am Now Ghosted. What Do I Do?

My girlfriend is in the military and I contacted her leadership to try to talk to her about our home loan and deed. The conversation I have had with her all she told me about the home was “refinance it”. I have paid most into the home and I am the one that has paid every mortgage bill and all bills are in my name.

I contacted a lawyer today to see if she will be willing to take her name off the deed but the appointment isn’t until January. I am also in talks with the loan company about how to go about this.

I’m mainly worried about if I want to sell in the future, her trying to get money that was put into the house. Also worried about not getting approved for getting a loan in just my name.