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I Think My Mother's Soon To Be Ex Husband Is Trying To Make Me Violate A No Contact Order For Him. (kansas)

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So my (30 female) mother’s soon to be ex husband (he’s not my biological father nor was I ever legally adopted.) attacked her and was given a no contact order (she is in the process of getting a protection of abuse order.). He keeps trying to make me let him live with me. I have also told him that I do not want to see or speak to him and so far he has tried over five times to do so.

The problem:

I live in the house with my mom. So him living here would be contact with my mom, which as I understand it would violate the order (I was told he can’t come near my mom, speak to her, or come near the house while she is there.).

Also I don’t know if it’s relevant but he’s been told by police not to come by and does not have legal rights to our rental (checked by an attorney.). The no contact order only applies to my mom but he keeps asking to let me let hi live in the same house she does.

So question is can/should I report this to the police since it seems like he is trying to make me violate a court order? I don’t intend on letting him stay, but he keeps claiming to want to “talk” only to demand a place to stay.

update: I've spoken with police and am waiting to hear from the person representing my mother. I've decided to file for my own order at the next opportunity. Thank you all for the advice and confirmation I'm not over reacting.

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