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My Dad Has Been In The U.s. Since 1995 As A Refugee But Still Doesn’t Have A Green Card Or Visa—how Can I Help Him?

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My dad came to the United States in 1995 as a refugee/asylum seeker. He arrived with nothing but hope for a better life—a life free of conflict and full of opportunity. For the past 29 years, he’s dedicated himself to this country, working tirelessly to create a better future for his family and contribute to his community.

He is a doctor who not only owns his own medical practice but also runs a hospital. His patients admire and respect him for his kindness, compassion, and unwavering commitment to their care. He’s a man who has gone above and beyond to give back, all while raising a family and living a life of integrity.

He’s never been in trouble with the law, has paid his taxes every year without fail, and has always lived as a model citizen. He put me and my siblings through college, ensuring that we had every opportunity he dreamed of when he came here. My mother, sister, and I have all been able to secure U.S. citizenship over the years—but my dad, the backbone of our family, still doesn’t have a green card or visa.

What makes this even harder is the immense personal sacrifices my dad has made. He’s only been able to see his mother once since he came to the United States. In 2001, we brought her here as a surprise to visit him—an unforgettable moment that meant everything to him. Tragically, she passed away shortly after that visit, and he was never able to return to see her or grieve with his family. Since 1995, he hasn’t been able to see any of his siblings. Decades have passed, and as they grow older, the separation weighs more heavily on him.

He’s hired multiple lawyers over the years, but none have been able to help him. Some simply didn’t put in the effort, while others gave him hope only to let him down. It feels so unfair that a man who has sacrificed so much and contributed so greatly to this country is left to live in constant fear of losing everything he’s built.

I want to help him, but I feel completely lost. I don’t know where to start or who to turn to. Has anyone been in a similar situation or knows of any immigration lawyers, organizations, or resources that could help someone like him? Are there specific avenues or programs I should be looking into?

If anyone has advice, suggestions, or even just words of encouragement, it would mean the world to me. My dad has always been my hero, and I want to do everything I can to make sure he finally gets the security and peace of mind he’s worked so hard to deserve.

Thank you so much for reading this and for any help you can offer.

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