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Potentially Stolen Property, Messy Breakup, Advice Needed As It Is A Controlled Substance...

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Advice needed: This breakup situation has been a huge mess, I (34f) was in a relationship with, let's call him Jax (21m). The relation ended in a bizarre manner because there was no conversation about it, he disappeared to his mother 's after telling me he was going to the gas station to get a drink and I tried to call him repeatedly and I was was only able to get in touch with him after I had been in a car wreck.... anyway, things happened, when I got back to the apartment he was loading up his stuff. I was in the mental of a nice little mental breakdown and I caused harm to myself in an attempt to short-circuit the Doom spiral that was in my brain. Understandably I was involuntarily committed . When I was in the hospital, he and his mother and stepfather removed some of his possessions from the apartment but then turned in the keys left the animals he didn't steal with "a day or two of food and water", then said it was somebody else's problem. When I returned I had been repeatedly insured that the animals had been rehomed. None of my possessions had been stolen and I would not have to deal with him any further. My return to the apartment was quite distressing as one of my cats had been stolen, one was left behind and hadn't been fed or watered all week, and the 10 rats that he owned had not been cared for. Had not been interacted with and had gone rather weird and a couple were ill. I communicated to his mother, my distress and displeasure at this situation and attempted to figure out what was going on. She called me a liar and said I was exaggerating and then attempted to gaslight me into just being okay with the situation . Later when I came back to pack I realized he had left a good amount of stuff , And it was not invaluable things , I attempted to immediately contact him and say hey. I know that these are your things and you need them. Can we set up a time and place for you to get them, you also have some of my things. I would appreciate them back. He never answered. He just kept reading my messages and would never respond . So I had his best friend message him and through him he threatened me about his possessions and then he and his mother stonewalled every attempt I made to make arrangements for a safe exchange of goods. They showed up at my apartment repeatedly, unannounced, uninvited, and at inappropriate times. After expressing my discontent in my boundaries being violated, they felt inappropriate to attempt to have me slapped with a no contact order? The no contact order was found to be invalid as I had only been attempting contact to avoid the legal action he threatened me with. The judge basically said he needed to be a grown ass man and handle his own stuff and stop wasting government resources.

That being said, I came home and I was packing last night and I realized that some of my medication is missing. The mother specifically packed up " All of my meds" And brought them to the ER as an excuse to intimidate me. I made a complaint to the hospital about it And she did it in front of the officer who was there making sure I wasn't going to go anywhere because you know IVC and whatever.

I understand the gravity of calling the cops and saying that this medication is missing because it is a controlled substance. I am not here to ruin anybody's life. I have not been able to establish any sort of healthy communication with them however, so I do not know if my appeal for her to return my medication civilly will work....

What would you do?

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