Private Intimate Video(s) Posted Online W/o Consent And Unknowingly Recorded -wa State

Please excuse me if I titled or tagged this incorrectly, but I’m literally shaking while typing as I just found these a few minutes ago and was NOT prepared for this. Short version: guy I’ve been dating has posted intimate videos of us doing the deed (found 3 so far) on one of his online accounts that is public. 1) I did NOT know I/we were being recorded. 2) I would NEVER consent to my private/intimate moments being shared anyway. It gets worse and much more embarrassing ,but I don’t even have words right now.. He doesn’t know I know.. yet. What are my options here? I feel so stupid and violated.