Revenge Porn

So i was just on the internet looking at some "Adult Content" and i shit you not. i found a video of myself, "self satisfying". when i saw it i had this weird moment where i was like hmm, thats kinda strange not only does the, "appendage", look familiar, but so does literally everything else. INCLUDING THE FUCKING BACKGROUND!! AND THEN IT HIT ME LIKE A TON OF BRICKS, i. remember. filming. and. sending. this. to. my.girlfriend. (now ex) i look at the name of the poster, its her middle name and the type of stuff she was kinda into. now here are some concerns legally speaking about proof. the video was uploaded in 2020, we have been separated since around that time, my face is not in it, thank god, but you will just have to trust me its me. also the reason i recognized the background was because of a very specific color wall that was in her moms old house, she no longer lives there, otherwise the video is kinda crappy quality as far as any discernable things in the background that would nail her in court. The video just straight up is not flattering. i would probably die if i had to show this as evidence in court or whatever. i live in Florida and she also did at the time of this video being recorded as well as uploaded, however she now lives in Ohio with her new bf and family. also, the phones that wouldve been used for this 4 years ago are not only long gone but more than likely turned to scrap by this point so no i dont think recovering the original would be possible. spmeone please tell me what should i do next? or what you would? Edit: Typos.